Love

The big man & I have been together for what seems like forever & a day. In reality, it's 21 years, and some days that can be forever. There have been ups and downs and even flatlines at points. I've seen a lot of marriages begin-and end-during those years. There are everyday stresses, and autism can devastate a previously strong relationship.

I have learned a few things in my life about relationships. 

The biggest one is to communicate. Talk, and not just about taking out the garbage, the kids and fluffy stuff. Really talk. Remember when you were dating and you hung on each other's every word? That shouldn't change because you said I do. Take 15 minutes to talk every day. 

Pray together. Pray for each other.

Praise each other. Acknowledge the little things. The dating divas have a great suggestion on their website (www.thedatingdivas.com)-start a couple gratitude journal. Write in there daily (optimal). Do things to fill their love tank. Learn to speak their love language. 

Spend time together. Cuddle. Hold hands. Date one another.