Women of God can never be like women of the world. The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity.
Margaret D. Nadauld
Living on the northern plains, you get used to crazy temperature fluctuations. Wednesday was record breaking warmth, last night it was 17 and downright cold. That, however, did not stop me from taking my son and his friends to the Parade of Lights in downtown Sioux Falls. This annual holiday tradition is my kick off to the holiday season.
The grinch is in the beginning
And Santa at the end
In between, there were lots of great floats and drum lines
Every community has their own celebrations. In Utah, its Pioneer Day.
Its basically a state holiday and there are a lot of tater tots and jello dishes being served. I laugh because it is such a part of my time growing up. I even learned to make green jello salad,
not that I would ever admit to it in hipster circles.
The parade would go through downtown Salt Lake City.
There would be floats.
People dressed as pioneers.
There would be royalty too.
And of course, green jello. It is the Utah state dish after all.
1 lrg box Green Jello or Lime Jello
1 lrg can Fruit Cocktail
1 lrg container Cottage Cheese
1-2 Bananas
1 lrg container Cool Whip
Drain the fruit cocktail juice, and then just mix everything together. You can add pineapple, carrots, oranges, what ever.
Don't say you weren't warned!
The 4th of July was always one of my favorite holidays. I remember as a little girl being so excited to go to the parade in my hometown.
hometown parade, from a friend of mine circa 1970's
I loved the floats, the bands and the fire trucks. After dark, the town would put on a fireworks display that rivaled Macy’s, and was always featured on the local news.
hometown band concert before the fireworks, early 90's from a friend
When I was a little bit older, I was able to march in the parade. I remember when I was in 4th or 5th grade, not much more than the Little Man, I was a giant sun. The parade theme that year was conserving energy, and I got to be solar power. Man, did I feel special!
As time went on, I took the princess to parades and fireworks. The Big Man & I would watch them too, and have ooh’s and ahh’s over the amazing displays. Little Man loves the fireworks, but isn’t in awe of parades as much as I am.
my grandmother and me, 1977
I have to admit that I don’t have the same joy over the 4th of July as I used to. It was on that day in 1999, my beloved grandmother suffered what would ultimately prove to be a fatal stroke.
my grandparents and my cousin Carol
It was right before I was going to grill some burgers, and I had just made a pitcher of margaritas (I know, not very American, but it was the drink of choice that summer).
L-R my aunt Mary, my aunt Olga, my grama, my Uncle Kalman
Earlier in the day, she had complained about a headache (warning sign!) but didn’t do anything about it and by later in the afternoon, had stopped mentioning it. She was eating some chips and there was some discussion about something that made her a bit agitated. The next thing I know she is slumped over in her chair and can’t speak. Of course, she was rushed by ambulance.
thanksgiving 1977 or 1978
l-r Aunt Mary, me, Uncle Kalman, my godfather, grama & my Aunt Jeannie
Knowing that, there is a bit of bittersweetness to the 4th of July for me now. I don’t decorate and I wouldn’t even know where my decorations were if everything depended on it. I don’t plan a special menu. I don’t even make a big deal over it anymore, which really isn’t fair to my son.
little man, 4th of July fireworks 2010
He DESERVES for it to be a special day, and this year I am declaring it to be so.
Living on the northern plains, you get used to crazy temperature fluctuations. Wednesday was record breaking warmth, last night it was 17 and downright cold. That, however, did not stop me from taking my son and his friends to the Parade of Lights in downtown Sioux Falls. This annual holiday tradition is my kick off to the holiday season.
The grinch is in the beginning
And Santa at the end
In between, there were lots of great floats and drum lines
