Showing posts with label time management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label time management. Show all posts

Monday, March 02, 2015

Time is on my Side


In the past, I have been accused of being flighty and not always sticking to task. Today, I might be diagnosed with ADHD, which would be incorrect. I do have quite the attention span, it’s just I am so excited by all that the world has to offer I want to take it all in. As time has gone on, I have forced myself to be disciplined and seeing tasks through to completion. I struggle with things I don’t particularly care for the most. In most cases, I’d rather be doing a craft project or reading or time sucking on facebook than cleaning or other less favorite activities.

Alas, I can’t always get what I want, and I have to do these things.

Enter, the GTD system. GTD stands for get things done, and it’s a time management philosophy. For people like me, it’s a phenomenal system. The crux of it is taking things from your mind, and recording them on paper/online/whatever and then break into manageable tasks or segments. Basically, I don’t have to keep trying to recall things and I can focus on what’s truly important.

There are 5 basic steps: capture, clarify, organize, reflect and engage.

Capturing includes making my lists. Each week, I start off with “in” list. It’s all the tasks that I have going on for the next week. Its everything from going grocery shopping to wanting to polish my French skills to a recipe I want to try. It’s an ongoing to do list. I review it and start delegating those tasks. Is it something that requires action (right away or someday) or does it need to be “incubated” (go to the ticker file). If it requires an action step, I think about what needs to be done and add it to my next action list or deciding if it needs to be delegated.

From the next action step, I move onto contexts-how I tag my to do list. I break it down by the following:

@calls-phone calls I need to make/respond

@emails-emails I need to send/respond

@home-things that need to get done at home

@errands-errands that need to be run

@work-tasks that need to be done at work

@ school-stuff for school & activities

@ scouts

@ gym

It helps me delegate and see the big picture. It’s pretty rewarding to check things off my list.

I also have a projects list, for things that require multiple steps or a longer range. I title the list with the project (ex: vacation) and then break it down into action steps. It makes it more manageable for me and its actually how my “logical” brain works.

Another list I have is my agendas, which I use quite differently than how the system designed it. I use it mostly for the little man’s therapy sessions, since we don’t meet on a weekly basis. It’s a running list of accomplishments, and sometimes, epic fails. It allows me to not have everything in my head and instead I can spend the session working on improving skills. I also use it for recurring events-some meetings, book group, etc.

I also have my someday list, which is my long range planning. Its everything that I would love to do, when I had the time/unlimited funds/whatever. I do look at it on a weekly basis, and sometimes I can move those projects or ideas to my action plan. Some of them have been on there forever, but that’s ok. Someday hasn’t gotten here yet!

My other primary tool is the calendar. I have lots of things to do on my calendar. If there is a deadline, it goes on my calendar. Everything else stays on my lists. This way I can focus on deadlines. I also schedule certain times to do recurring tasks (like return phone calls)-that way the caller can expect a response and I can block out the time.

Each week I do a weekly review of my lists. I make sure things that needed to get done, got done and if not, reschedule. I also add things to my calendar for the upcoming week, and can plan meals, etc around that.

My other part of the system that really works for me are my folders. Yes, folders. In fact, 45 of them. (the actual system calls for 43, but I’ve added a few more to customize). There are 12 folders for each month, and 31 folders for each day. I file everything-bills, correspondence, paperwork for school, etc as stuff comes in. If it’s not due until the next month (or longer), it goes into that month’s folder. Each month, I go through that month’s folder and then put the paperwork in the proper day’s folder. For example, Little Man has to bring in an egg carton on a specific day the next month. I will put it on my action plan, and a reminder in the folder. Every morning I check the folder for that day and it helps me to remember what needs to be done. I don’t have a gazillion things bouncing around in my head, and I am more efficient.

I have also added a to read folder, so I can grab it when I know I am going to have waiting time or down time. Its articles, listing of websites I wanted to visit and others. Sometimes I have an actual book or magazine in there, other times it’s a sticky note. I also added a to write folder-so I don’t miss people’s birthdays, special occasions or anything else I wanted to send a card for. I also keep stationary in there to write letters or notes. I keep this is my tote bag, so when I have down time I can be productive.

 

 

Sunday, April 01, 2012

The Remedy

I had a conversation the other day with a casual friend, discussing manifesting your dreams. I have been incredibly blessed, and the blessings continue. Yet as a woman, the stress of attempting to balance life can be overwhelming.
We are trying to balance work, family, housework and everything else and it's exhausting on a lot of levels. In many cases, this juggling acts lead to bad choices. We overspend, overeat, overextend ourselves. Many have physical manifestations-bags under our eyes, extra weight around the middle, chronic pain-that signify our lack of balance.
Yes, I said chronic pain. Pain that doesn't have a physical cause. It's there, usually as shoulder and upper back pain or a stiff neck. You feel it and you can't crack it. If you get massages sometimes you can feel the emotions being released and it can be overwhelming. Sometimes in certain yoga asanas I feel the same way. I had an emotional experience in camel a few weeks ago that was overwhelming.
My friend is a holistic healer, and she focuses on blocked chakras as her method of healing.
For example, if you have tight hips and hamstrings, your sacral chakra is blocked. Or if your back hurts, your heart chakra is blocked.
No matter what your belief system is, we as modern women, are stressed to the max and need a Calgon moment now and zen.
The question is...are you willing to look at what's paining you?

Monday, February 20, 2012

New Moon on Monday

Its President's Day, and I an off today with the boys. I don't really have an agenda, a few ideas-workout, organize some storage containers, work on blankets for the Humane Society, do laundry, tidy up the house. Little Man has a dentist appointment today, but that's it for planned events.
It's nice to not have an agenda, because for the most part I'm chained to my calendar. I've had quite a few people ask me how I juggle a full time job, a part time job, teaching both vegan cooking and yoga, writing, training for a 5k, maintaining a home, being a mom & wife, community involvement and crafting.
How do I do it all? Time management.
For one thing, I've cut out of my life people and things that don't bring me joy and support my goal of finding bliss in my life.
I made a painful realization that I had allowed basically haters into my life. For the most part, I spent so much time and energy trying to win these folks over. Basically, I was a footnote buried in their dissertation.
I know that I am a fantabulous person; I've been called a role model and a mentor. I will never be like anyone else in the world. By trying to be someone else to get others to like me is being disingenuous. If you don't like me for me, then you have no room in my life. You wont like me anymore than currently if I lost weight, became holly homemaker or did anything else that others want for me. By getting rid of that negativity has freed up all sorts of energy to do other things.
Part of time management involves precision planning. I plan my life and my son's life, our clothes and breakfasts and lunches.
Another part of it includes routine. Every morning I:
Clean up the kitchen
Feather dust
Make beds
Do a load of laundry
Swish & swipe bathrooms
Swifter the floor
It helps me keep my sanity. I may not clean the house like how others do, but then again they don't clean the house like I do.
Working out is the glue to keep this all together. It preserves my sanity. It gives me energy. The stronger I get physically, the stronger I get over all.
It helps me reorder priorities.
I work hard so I can play hard.
I play hard so I can keep up with my son.
And it's all good.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Memories are Made of This

Scrapbooking is one of my passions. In fact, it is so much so I've been accused of staging photos because it would make a great scrapbook page!
I do take a lot of photos, and with the use of my phone, I can take them and then upload them to get printed rather easily.
The only issue is the time factor. Even if you are making a plain page, you still need time. I find scrapping at lunchtime allows me to stay current. If I wanted to, I could even make embellishments for my pages.
Highly unlikely I'd be making layered paper flowers (which are beautiful but too time consuming to do, but I would probably buy) however, I'd probably be cutting cardstock to mat pictures.
I have my portable scrapping bag, which includes:

Small paper trimmer
Scissors
Adhesive
Circle punch
Paper
Pictures
Cardstock

I have a cute travel jewelry case that I have repurposed for scrapping. I use a plastic envelope to hold my paper, pictures and make it completely transportable.

I can do a layout in about 15 minutes. My pink stamper (www.mypinkstamper) has some really great sketches to inspire you to do a quick, easy layout. One of my favorite sketches keeps it simple and easy. If you have the time, you can scrap. It might not look like something like the super well done "Logan" page I found on line, but it can preserve the memory!




Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Clocks


Time can be my enemy done days. It seems to slip away sometimes. I struggle with not having enough time. I've used it as an excuse to not to do things, like cook or clean. But I ha e the same 24 hours in the day everyone else has. It's what I make of it.

Yesterday was my,first day back to work post op. I was exhausted when I came home. Little Man had a no school day, and the Big Man was tired too-after having worked all day, getting up at 1:30 & then child-care. So he was beat, I was beat & all I wanted to do was rest.

Today will be better. I admit I was out of sorts all day due to lots of firsts.

It will be better today.

I know what I'm walking into. I feel confident.

It's Tuesday, and I have to work on getting back to routines. I have to work on managing my time better, squeezing things in. For example, exercise. I'm multitasking walking on the treadmill & blogging. I need to get back in the habit of during commercials doing exercises. It's a great time to do my ab routine & still be with my family. Just like daily cleaning helps keep the house running.

I have to work on keeping up the energy level up in my house. That's huge too. If we are all dragging everyone suffers.

Tonight will be different.