
Women of God can never be like women of the world. The world has enough women who are tough; we need women who are tender. There are enough women who are coarse; we need women who are kind. There are enough women who are rude; we need women who are refined. We have enough women of fame and fortune; we need more women of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity. Margaret D. Nadauld
Wednesday, October 08, 2014
Mother Runner
Wednesday, July 02, 2014
Miss Independent
I made a tulle skirt for March for Babies a few years ago, and that started an obsession for me. I now need them (no really NEED) for the 5k’s I participate in. I run, very slowly, and am not going to break any records. I go out there and have fun. Hence, the skirt, which adds to the fun for me.
There is a free 5k every year on the 4th of July in downtown Sioux Falls, which kicks off the festivities. I had to make a patriotic skirt for this one, since I now have a growing collection (purple & white for march for babies, pink & white for the race against breast cancer & the race for the cure, plain white for the color run & color vibe, glow in the dark for the electric glow run…you get the picture).
I wear the skirt over my running pants, and depending on the weather and race course, compression socks.
For a patriotic contribution to my collection, I needed:
1 spool white glitter tulle
1 spool red tulle
1 spool blue tulle
Thin ribbon to go around my waist and tie
You can rock one of these even if you're not a toddler
Measure waist. Add 6 inches to tie it. Mark off the tie areas. (I use a paper clip)
Cut ribbon.
Measure the length you want the skirt to be. I like mine right about the knees. Add 2 inches for the knot
Cut tulle strips. I use the whole roll for each. The more tulle strips, the fuller the skirt.
Knot tulle strips to the ribbon.
Wear your skirt and run your race
Thursday, May 05, 2011
This Is Why We Fight
So, late last year, the Decemberists began to get a lot of airplay for Down by the River. But it was the follow up song, This is Why We Fight that totally hooked me.
Earlier this week, the accordianist/keyboardist Jenny Conlee announced she had breast cancer and was dropping out of the tour to receive treatment.
Cancer sucks, to put it bluntly.
Breast cancer really sucks.
I've had friends (and clients) die from it.
My mother in law beat it.
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L-r my mother in law, me and the Big Man July 2005 |
I had a cancer scare myself. When I had my first mammogram at 36, I had bad finding. There was a "spot". So I had to have another mammogram.
There was that spot again.
So, then I had to have a biopsy. Two days before Christmas.
It was negative. I was relieved, but...I felt guilty.
There are a lot of women who don't share my sense of relief.
Jenny Conlee just joined that sisterhood.
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My team for last year's race. Even though it was Mother's Day weekend, at race time the temperature was 30. |
On Saturday, I will be running in a 5k to raise money for breast cancer patients in South Dakota. Many people I know have been helped by the funds that the race generates.
http://www.kintera.org/faf/donorReg/donorPledge.asp?ievent=450022&lis=0&kntae450022=209CF77E78494F60AF6A5CB8D1EED4BC&supId=323262260
If you are ever curious about what life is like while undergoing treatment, check out http://lisabadams.com/blog/. It is alternating and uplifting at the same time. In a comment on her blog, I wrote
In my day job, I manage medical bills for people with chronic illnesses. Many have cancer, many more are young and have young families. My heart aches, even though I see such a small part of their journey. Ive seen many, many miracles. I have also seen a lot of pain.
I am grateful my mother in law beat breast cancer. I’m equally heartbroken that colon cancer took my dad before he could walk Mr me down the aisle & meet his grandson. My father in law also died from colon cancer, he saw us get married but he wasn’t there to.meet my little guy.
This Sat I will run to raise $ for breast cancer. I run because I can. I run because not everyone has a traveling scarf to wear. I run to restore dignity to patients. I run because I’m grateful I dodged the bullet twice with cancer scares. I run for those who can’t.
And on Saturday, I will run with the wind on my back and an awesome playlist on my ipod.
This is why I run, and this is why we fight.